Asking “How Was Your Round?” Can Cost You

We all do it as golf professionals. We see a member walk into the golf shop after their round and the words just come out. “How was it out there?” You say. All of a sudden, the memories of shot by shot accounts of other members 94’s come flooding back, and you panic. Like a game of Russian Roulette you just hope for a quick “Great day! Course is playing awesome!” or “Well, we had fun.” Anything but the dreaded “You won’t believe the round I just had. So, on Number 1 tee……..”

Regardless of the response, do either people in this exchange gain anything? Sure, they feel a little better that you took the time to listen to them. And, you have some insights into their game and how the course may be playing. But, is the relationship with you and the club strengthened at all? After all, we all ask the same question. What’s the difference if we ask it or another pro down the road?

Getting to know our member is important, but many of our hurried interactions during the season aren’t conducive to deeper dives into who they are as a person. And, when the winter comes we will go months without seeing them at all.

This area of member engagement is one of the most overlooked benefits that social media platforms offer a golf professional. Imagine having a window into many of your members lives outside of the club. Like, seeing their daughter just got her Black Belt in Karate or that their wife just landed a big promotion at work.



Social Media Tip

I recommend a platform like Instagram for this type of member engagement. You can find your members by searching their name, or by searching the followers of your club account (another great reason to create a club account), and view their profile.

Stay out of the “News Feed” of posts you get served when you log in to your account. I prefer to go into each persons account, where you can learn a little from their bio and also see all their posts in one place. You have a much better chance of remembering something about someone if you aren’t jumping from person to person.



Now let’s revisit that post round interaction. And let’s say this time we saw on social media the example of the wife getting a big promotion at work. Now rather than ask how the round was you can say,

“Hey Jimmy! I trust you guys had fun out there today. I saw online your wife Jane got that big promotion. Please give her my congratulations if I don’t see her this weekend. Actually, it sounds like she’s going to be really busy with the new gig and it may be awhile before we see her here at the club. Why don’t you come out for Sunday breakfast tomorrow with the family? It’s on me. I’d love to wish Jane congratulations myself if you can make it?”

You can tell Jimmy is pretty impressed as he graciously accepts the offer with a hand shake and a “Thank you. That means a lot and we will be there!”

What you couldn’t tell, is that Jimmy and his wife, Jane, had planned on celebrating the promotion by looking at new homes across town in that new golf community. Plans that they later canceled, during the breakfast you invited them to, because you had something to say, because you were paying attention.

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